Talking to a lady can be nerve-wracking, especially if you’re trying to impress her or are otherwise insecure about your chances with her. It takes practice, but there are some tricks that can help make it easier to talk to ladies without looking like an awkward fool. Here are 10 ways you can learn to talk to ladies for the first time without making a fool of yourself.

1) Always keep your sense of humor
It’s all about building her comfort levels and finding things you have in common. Make her laugh and be genuine. If there are small moments where you can pull back and just enjoy, then do that! Women love men who don’t take them too seriously or want something from them; that’s when they feel comfortable. You may not always get it right on the first try, but remember to stay calm, humble, patient and confident; she’ll soon see how great you really are.

2) Don’t drink too much
Make sure you don’t drink too much, or it’ll be easy for your words to come out slurred and stumbling. You want your words to be articulate and strong. Confidence is cool, so you need to make sure you’re confident with your words.talking

Hold eye contact as long as she does; if she’s shy, wait patiently until she initiates it back. And if her hair’s on her face while talking? Put your hand on hers softly and brush the hair away with light strokes.

3) Be bold, but respectful
People are always looking for new ways to start conversations with people they’ve never met. Approaching someone you’ve never met before can be scary, but it doesn’t have to be. If you want advice on how to talk to a lady, read on!
**1. Smile** It’s important that you look friendly and approachable from the get-go. Don’t be afraid, just walk up and say hi! To keep things light and simple, try Hi there! or Hey!. Make eye contact – if she looks at you for less than three seconds, she probably isn’t interested in talking to you.

4) Show her that you care about more than just looks
The best way to not come across as shallow is by showing that you want to know more than just what she looks like. Rather, take some time to ask about her personality, or hobbies that she might enjoy. You’ll be surprised at how many guys are interested in getting to know a person before they become intimately involved with them. The end result will be stronger feelings and more respect when things progress between the two of you.

5) Ask open ended questions
There is nothing worse than being too nervous to say anything when there’s a lady standing in front of you. Talking can be easy if you have something interesting to say and have some conversation starters up your sleeve. Here are 10 ways you can break the ice and talk like an experienced conversationalist!

6) Take an interest in what she cares about
Take an interest in what she cares about and you’ll be doing better than 90% of other guys. Women like talking about themselves, so ask questions, then dig deeper by listening intently. When you’re done chatting, ask her if she wants to do something together to make it worthwhile for her – and not just another date.

7) Show her your personality
This may be a cliche, but it’s true: in order to catch her eye and her attention, you need to show off your personality. But how do you showcase this quality without seeming over-the-top? It’s all about humor. You don’t have to tell jokes or make puns, but a good joke or two will help break the ice and charm her at the same time.

8) Don’t show off too much or be overly cocky
Keep your message simple and direct. 1. Hi! My name is _______. 2. Nice meeting you! 3. What’s your name? 4. Where do you live? 5. Do you come here often? 6. Do you know where the nearest subway station is? 7. It was great meeting you 8. Follow-up question about what they said 9. Thank them for taking the time to talk to me 10: Give them your card

9) Don’t hold on too long or be pushy. Let it go after three approaches.
Don’t hold on too long or be pushy. Let it go after three approaches. If you are holding her hand, let her know you’re doing so and if she doesn’t want your touch, don’t keep touching her! Do not flirt or make any comments that will turn her off. Keep in mind that these may not be welcome advances.: If you are holding her hand, let her know you’re doing so and if she doesn’t want your touch, don’t keep touching her!

10) Finally, if all else fails, don’t forget rule number 1 – ALWAYS KEEP YOUR SENSE OF HUMOR!
Here’s our final rule and good luck sticking with all of this. To summarize, in order to start a conversation with someone who is attractive and doesn’t know you:
-say Hi or Hey or What’s up?
-ask them something about themselves
-listen! Don’t do all the talking. Ask questions to get them talking more.


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